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Jul. 20th, 2006

  • 7:45 PM
guess  how much


Vilkis (1993 - 20.07.2006)

Independent boy who took himself for walks without us and who had to be carried to the end.




D's father came home from work on Tuesday night (the night we put Wuffy to sleep) and found their family's dog paralysed from the waist down. They took him to the vet because it was so dire a situation. The vet diagnosed that Vilkis ("Wolf") had a tumour on his spine that had finally pressed too much against the spinal cord and had rendered him incapable of moving anything from the site of the tumour onward. An injection and a course of tablets was administered - possibly just as a soother for the family than anything helpful (well, of course painkilling, but) against the progression (or towards the recession) of the tumour. The vet informed them that if the tablets did not help by the next day, then they would need to come back and put him to sleep.

Vilkis was always friendly - he loved running from one end of the garden to the other with me, while D worked on another of his infernal cars, and playing with the empty cordial bottles that we through for him (easier to grab in his teeth). He used to lick my toes in excitement at my visiting him, and he would eat his dried dog food in order of colour and shape (a good example is in the photo - yes, he did that all by himself).

Vilkis helped me when I began to learn Lithuanian - even if I learnt "sit", "stay", and "good dog" and couldn't really use those in conversation, it was still the start I needed. Silly Vilkis who wouldn't let D relieve himself in the garden without trying to do the same on the same spot at the same time and nearly getting himself wet!

I feel really awful that I didn't have a chance to say goodbye. D was worried to tell me after the death of our bird, then Wuff ... but I might have had a chance to say goodbye, because it wasn't until this morning that they took Vilkis to the vet and said their final goodbyes to him. I feel quite bad about this - since D moved to Bobute's, we haven't visited Vilkis as much because there's not been much call to go to his dad's place.

I'm glad that he and Wuffy went together though. They were good mates - we sometimes took them walking in the nearest national park together.

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(Anonymous) wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:38 am (UTC)
I'm sorry about Vilkis. But I also want to tell you that you have a great writing style. If you are in school, think about taking a creative writung course. You have a talent for it.
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:54 am (UTC)
Well, thank you :) I think it's more that their characters and individual quirks lend to the written memories of them, but I am inclined to share them as sweetly as possible, because they were so sweet and dear themselves. That suggests I might have ... exaggerated. I haven't.

:) Thank you. I'm not sure who this is? But thank you - very much.
[info]miss__scarlet wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:39 am (UTC)
:-O i am just so shocked. your last post said it all. my god.
well more hugs are in order when i see you next, and i hope you're ok.
that is such a cute thing to do, taking your dogs for walks together. i'm glad they were friends and i hope they're having fun off somewhere better :-)
[info]miss__scarlet wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:40 am (UTC)
oh and i meant to say, what a smart dog eating the food so neatly. they really do have personalities don't they...
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:46 am (UTC)
They do, lol.
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:51 am (UTC)
Seriously. I could laugh, but whether that's hysteria or despair, I don't know. Thank you, you are such a honey *snugs*

I'm sort of, well, numb.

It is. Lol, or nauseatingly couple-y :X But yes, I like to think they are keeping each other company on a new adventure. It's almost not coincidental - if you think things have timing for a reason, etc. I know that his tumour must have been happening for a while and did just suddenly appear in full bloom on Tuesday, lol - not that silly ... but for it all to come to a head at the same time ...
[info]kathsonno wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:55 am (UTC)
Oh for the love of god.
What is happening in the world at the moment!
I'm so sorry Sari!
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:30 pm (UTC)
Iiiii know! I think it's a great time to employ "WTFOMGBBQ".

*snugs* Thank you so much. Everyone's support in such a difficult time has been so welcome.
[info]rwarner wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 11:57 am (UTC)
Wow. They say things like this come in threes, but that doesn't make it any better. At least now they'll both have a companion on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge.

*HUGS*

[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:29 pm (UTC)
That's what [info]eneit just said.

Yes, that is actually a huge weight off my heart. I've been feeling so sad that Wuffy was lonely by himself ... Not that I wanted Vilkis to go (at all!).
[info]tropic_dm wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:02 pm (UTC)
Oh my goodness, you poor thing!

HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS

And Vilkis was a very smart dog with his dried food - one of our cats would always grab a mouthful of his wet food, dump it in his dry food, roll it around until it was suitably coated and THEN eat it.
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:28 pm (UTC)
Ugh, I know, I know! It's so ridiculous, I'm beyond tears and into humour! :X

*hugshugshugs*

He was! You cat sounds like a smarty eater too! How cute!
(Anonymous) wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:04 pm (UTC)
more hugs
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:17 pm (UTC)
Hi! Thank you! 0.0 ... who are you? (Curiouser and curiouser - two anonymous posters in five minutes?)
(no subject) - [info]hirolla - Jul. 20th, 2006 12:32 pm (UTC)
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:35 pm (UTC)
lmao! whew! I was already dealing with one anonymous poster (although dealing is harsh, their very friendly and encouraging comments are very welcome).

Did you realise your IP is for a QLD/Asia Pacific provider? Apparently anyway. :X
[info]hirolla wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:39 pm (UTC)
and yes, it was me that deleted the post too...... was my IP coming up as the QLD one? cos i'm with chariot, which is like not too far down the road
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:40 pm (UTC)
I worked it out ;)

Yes, it was. Random, ne? How odd.
[info]hirolla wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:35 pm (UTC)
the second 1 was from me, my stOOPid puter logged me out
[info]just2draw wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:14 pm (UTC)
This explains the previous post. What a horrible fortnight...
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 12:18 pm (UTC)
Honey, you're preaching to the converted on that one, lol. *snugs* Thank you.
[info]hippiecritter wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 03:07 pm (UTC)
Wow Sari, again, I'm just speechless. I have faith in your strength to handle the grief and associated bad feelings. Many people say that bad things happen in 3s, so hopefully no more bad stuff for a while. I'd say you've had your fill.

*snuggles*
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 20th, 2006 10:55 pm (UTC)
I know. I really do - where are all the words gone? (Yours and mine!) *snugs* :(

I hope so. I truly, truly hope so.
[info]amnesiacat wrote:
Jul. 21st, 2006 01:33 am (UTC)
I don't have much more to say than I am truly sorry for you losses. *hugs* It's hard losing a friend,especially if they've been with you for a long time. *hugs again*
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 21st, 2006 07:08 am (UTC)
Thank you :) *snugs*
[info]erlking wrote:
Jul. 21st, 2006 01:42 am (UTC)
This is the first chance I've had to say anything, and I odn't know what to say. It's so incredibly unfortunate to have three losses, one on top of the other like this. I don't know if anything I say could ever help. But I want to let you know that, from your post about the lovebirds through to this, I have been reading, and I have felt great sympathy for you.

I'm sure they're happy and peaceful, wherever they are right now.
[info]kittygopounce wrote:
Jul. 21st, 2006 07:09 am (UTC)
*SNUGS* thank you :) It means a lot to know that you have been reading and just being there. I know a lot of people don't have the words or don't feel they know how to express support, but truly for me, just knowing you know and feel sympathy for me really, really helps.

I hope so :) Thanks Michael :)